Monday, January 25, 2016

See You Again

It comes with great excitement and long anticipation that I am proud to announce, I am moving to Memphis!

You are probably wondering a million things, so let me try and answer them quick and dirty, then I'd like to talk about the personal aspect I have been dying to dish. 

-I am moving because I got a new job with my current/same company. 
-Feb. 15 is my start date & they'd like me to move ASAP. 
-I will be leading a project dealing a lot in Milwaukee, so I will still travel to Milwaukee through June. 
-My official new title is Production Development Specialist, which is a fancy term for Sr. Manufacturing Engineer. 
-Yes, my cat is coming with me! 
-No, my boyfriend is not, however he is 200% supportive of my decision in lieu of my career. We have a plan to make things work long-distance, so that's all you should be concerned with. [Turns out, "make things work" means "we're done."]
-It is warmer there!! The 7 day forecast shows over 60 degrees (for January). 
-It is in the same time zone. 
-I visited Memphis quite a bit in 2014 for a project, so I am semi-familiar with the area. 
-I have begun apartment searching, but will do more when I'm there in February. 

Those are the basics.  

My feelings:
I AM SO EXCITED!! My impatience, lack of fear, affinity for change, are all characteristics that helped make this life decision. Most importantly, for the past 10 years, I have complained about Wisconsin winters. I have agreed with the phrase "if you hate it, why are you here?" for far too long. This is me standing up and doing something about it. I didn't exactly go searching for the opportunity, but it found me and said; "Hey Berea, I'm here. Are you coming?".  I couldn't say no.

I had my mind made up the day I found out about the opportunity. After the shell shock, my subconscious had a 20 minute conversation about the positives & negatives, but at minute 21, I vividly remember thinking "Berea, are you kidding me? You have to do this." End of story. I knew. 

All too often, I get into conversations with people wanting to do more. When I talk about my brothers' life adventures, the usual comment is "I wish I could do that." What are your limitations? What is the consequence of exceeding those boundaries? As much as I hate cliche sayings; "never say never". 

I am not moving as an excuse for an escape, rather to challenge my comfort zone and learn MANY new things. I am perfectly content with what I have and where I am, but contentment is not progressive. Fear of change is the biggest road block I face in my career, so if I am advocating for change, I need to understand its challenges in order to sell the change.

My fears:
-Leaving family
-Leaving the best friends I've ever had
-My job not meeting expectations 
-Living in a southern state (and getting the Yankee comment all too often as well as the [slower] pace of things and being called ma'am). 
-Not being amongst Packer fans
-Driving 9+hrs with my cat 

Not to sound rude, but I don't need your advice. I will be fine. The positives outweigh these fears and I have contingency plans for all the above. My family loves me, friends will come and go, and I won't have to wonder "what if".

What I ask of you:
Please text me whenever! Probably a lot at first, but I will really need you 1, 2, 3+ months in. Just say hi, tell me you miss me, whatever. Our relationship won't be the same, but I promise I will always want to hear from you! I have moved enough in my life to know when I'm out of sight, I'm out of mind. I will hold no animosity when your life moves forward without my presence because mine will too. 
I want you to visit!! Just give me a slight warning and I promise I will be the best hostess! 

I made this decision because if not now, when? This is the best time to do it.

I ask that you send me Spotted Cow, Packer's swag, and cheese. No brats or snow please. 

Stay tuned for my Memphis adventures! There will be more to tell. :)

Monday, January 4, 2016

2015 Finale

Happy New Year!

Let's start with some 2015 stats:

I took a personal record number of vacation days = 20.875 days
     (The previous highest was in 2014 at 13.5 days)
I visited 2 new countries: Italy & Jamaica
My salary increased 10.4% over my 2014 salary
     (Thanks to a job change followed by a promotion to Senior Engineering)
I spent 44% of my weekends outside of Milwaukee
I visited and stayed at my parents house the most since college (6 visits)
I experienced Las Vegas for the first time as an adult & didn't gamble once
I was at Lambeau for the retirement of Brett Favre's jersey
Experienced the warmest September in Wisconsin's recent history & no snow until Dec. 28th
Stayed up for more than 24hrs for the first time since my college era (for my brother's 24hr Ultra)
Surpassed 1,500 posts on Instagram

On a more personal note, I don't feel like my year was as exciting as the stats show! How is that for pessimistically high standards?

Even though I took an exuberant number of days off, I traveled to less places that my previous 2 years. I think taking 3 major trips was the reason for the vacation depletion. I spent more time in fewer places than less time in more places. I also traveled much less for my new job, as I only took 1 trip instead of 6. I like traveling so that was a big bummer, so subconsciously I must have made up for it on my personal time.

I also had much less pressure from a work aspect this year. Since it was my first year in my new position, I didn't have years of knowledge weighing on my shoulders, like me leaving would not remove a fraction of daily functionality for the rest of my coworkers. In previous years, I had always been moderately stressed about leaving work and the consequences of missing events or knowing important information that no one else did. I've got to say, both are hard. In my case this year, it makes me nervous about my necessity and the age old, 'do they really need me?', question. However, I think it's bad for a company to have employees that have hidden knowledge that only they know. Considering on a day when we had to let 7 white collar employees go, HR called me in to say how my work is much appreciated and recognized across management when none of my coworkers got the same praise was reassurance I am still needed. :)

I became quite the movie buff this year. I didn't keep track, but I must have seen a record number of movies this year. Some of the most notable and highly recommended, in no particular order, are: Everest, Secario, The Big Short, The Hateful Eight, The Martian, Mad Max, Ex Machina, Inside Out, The Longest Ride, Southpaw, Furious 7, and Entourage. Also highly recommended non-movies are; Making a Murderer and Jimmy Fallon on The Tonight Show.

Although our official 'dating' didn't begin until February, this NYE marked 3 years that I have been seeing my boyfriend, which feels like a huge milestone surpassing my past relationships. We did many things together and independently this year which I feel makes a strong relationship. I am also proud to say he had a great year as an entrepreneur making many tough business decisions as well as getting to visit his work force in the Philippines. I read a book recently that gave the statistic that by 2018, 80% of wives will make more than their husbands & although we are not married, I will probably not make more than him in our careers, but it is certainly something I aim for!

In conclusion, I would like to leave you with some of the goals I have for 2016, maybe you can hold me accountable.
Take the GMAT (& tentatively/ambitiously get accepted to grad school)
Take more management training
Visit 2 new countries
Buy a pair of Christian Louboutins
Keep my weight under 121lbs consistently (I maxed at 124 this year)

Thanks for reading!!